Vaginal Stimulation
Vaginal Stimulation and the Clitoris
It is a theoretically known fact that vaginal stimulation leads to a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral stimulation ends with a clitoral orgasm, but researchers, debaters and especially women have a hard time deciding which one is better: the vaginal or the clitoral orgasm.
While a clitoral orgasm is achieved by direct or indirect stimulation (through the clitoral hood) of the clitoris with the help of fingers, tongue or sex toys, a vaginal orgasm is reached when a woman’s vaginal canal (including the G-spot) is stimulated. The sensations can reach as far as her cervix area, so that’s why this is considered to be a deeper and calmer orgasm which ends in a relaxation of the whole body. On the other hand, clitoral orgasms are usually followed by a sense of over stimulation and are more intense than vaginal ones. This theory, other than being approved by the majority of women, has been confirmed by Sigmund Freud who wrote about how the clitoral orgasm leads to a more satisfying and wonderful orgasm (the vaginal one) who takes place in the vagina, during the sexual intercourse, while the woman is penetrated and after she received proper vaginal stimulation.
In vaginal stimulation, lubrication of the vagina is essential for an enjoyable and irritation-free sexual intercourse. The vaginal lubrication can be achieved by sexual stimulation, arousing and foreplay; especially playing with the breasts and nipples (touching, sucking and biting) can easily lubricate a woman by causing sexual desire. When sexual desire increases, the vagina starts to lubricate making it easy to reduce the friction during intercourse and help achieve a vaginal orgasm. Another thing that helps is paying attention to the clitoris because the clitoris extends inside the vagina and once it’s stimulated, vaginal lubrication happens. For women who have trouble achieving vaginal lubrication, there are lotions and lubricants available.
Sexual foreplay is another great way to enhance vaginal stimulation and smooth the way for a vaginal orgasm. Regularly, a foreplay has both a psychological and physical purpose. Psychologically, it helps both partners to become more intimate and lose all inhibitions, while it causes physical changes that ease up the way for vaginal stimulation: the man gets an erection and the woman becomes aroused and highly lubricated.
Vaginal stimulation can be an intermediate phase before having sex or a solo activity during masturbation. Vibrators are designed to offer vaginal stimulation, but a set of lubricated hands can do wonders. Rubbing, easy touching, stroking or alternative levels of pressure on the clitoris and the area around can be a good way to induce sexual desire while lying on the back or sitting in a chair. Some women prefer alternating finger stimulation with rubbing their bodies against pillows or other objects. Masturbation is a land to explore and be imaginative as long as no sharp objects are used. Most women prefer to masturbate in the shower or while taking a bath because the warm water helps them relax and the shower head can be used in many different stimulating ways. In masturbation, the G-spot can be stimulated with the help of a dildo or vibrator, while clitoris rubbing can be combined simultaneously with vaginal stimulation for an enjoyable ride to orgasm.